LAST WEEK and a half, ish… Part I

Here is the sum up of my summing up:

Adolf’s birthday

·         Our dear Zimbabwean bud from UCT had his 23^rd birthday and officially finished undergrad. You better believe he was ready to boogie down. We had a lovely time going out to all of our favorite spots: Stones, Dubliner, etc.

·         I guess that in African culture, the birthday person is supposed to give to their friends instead of the other way around, which I think is pretty damn lekker.

Rhodes Memorial

·         I went for another night hike with Jason, Stuart, Mary Claire, and Jess Burkard

·         Fireflies! Again!

·         We walked up to Rhodes Memorial to partake in some view and some wine. There were also three other people up there. Enter new friends Khethiwe, Kat, and TK. They just finished their fourth year of economics at UCT and were up there celebrating.

Imbasa part two

·         I went back to Imbasa Primary school!

·         It was Stu Lo’s last day there (Mary has one more after this), so he threw a going away party for his kids.

·         It was really great; they performed skits, poems, and read farewell letters to him. It seemed as though, despite all the stress and hardship that Stuart has experienced here, the kids really appreciated having him there and that he was a very meaningful part in their classroom community.

·         HOWEVER, a party is a nice idea. Giving forty kids cups of custard inevitably ends in custard all over everywhere. Everywhere. They were holding out bits of plastic and cardboard so that I would give them more! Custard is apparently crack for kids. Who knew?

Khayelitsha overnight

·         Everyone assumes that the townships are dangerous, and they are, particularly for ignorant foreigners like us. But, not in the extreme way that most people (myself included) seem to think. So, to prove this certain people have set up Bed and Breakfasts within the townships to bridge the gap.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khayelitsha: It is the largest township in the cape flats (the large flat area just outside of Table Mountain etc.). Check out the panorama shot on the wiki site!

·         And because of this, I took a long trek out to Khayelitsha with Stuart, Shatevia, and Sarah to spend the night in one such bed and breakfast.

·         We got in a little after sundown, and we were famished, so the lady who owned the house took us to a market nearby and we had some delicious fat cooks (fried dough balls, sometimes filled with meat or veggies).

·         Afterwards, we hung out at the house and spoke with the woman who owned it. She was incredibly interesting. She had gone to school in Chicago and worked for woman’s liberation groups, yet she came back to South Africa. It seems to me that everyone that lives here loves it too much to leave permanently.

·         The following day we went across the way to a small kresh (daycare). And these kids were a bundle of energy that ran around and around and enjoyed all the songs and games we had learned from other kids (tomatisolisol, fire on the mountain, etc.)

·         We then took a kombi (public taxi) to a local market. I think this would have to be my favorite market that I’ve been to in South Africa. Simply for the fact that it was really small (I had to ask an armed guard where it was), and so it felt like all the money I was spending was going directly to the community. There were the four of us and then three shop keepers. It was also neat because the shopkeepers were telling us about how they made all of the different jewelry, pottery, and artwork. I got presents for Sam, Jess, and mom and dad here, but I wanted to buy a whole lot more!

Khayelisha day Part II

·         It was discovered upon our return to the K house that Stuart had left my cellular at the B&B in Khayelitsha. So the day turned into a retrieval mission.

·         First, Jason, Stuart, and I walked to the Kombi station, but the one that goes all the way out to Khayelitsha was on a lunch break. So, we took a meander through the neighborhood and stumbled upon the Center for Conflict Resolution, and they had an entire library dedicated to peace studies from around the world, but mainly focused in Africa. So that was a pleasant, educational adventure.

·         We then took a forty minute, hot, squished kombi ride with screaming babe and all, out to Site E and gathered my phone from the B&B.

·         Jason has been working with a woman from Khayelitsha as part of an internship to help her start an orphanage, so we decided to go check her place out. We went back to the big Site C kombi station to wait for her daughter. An hour later, no daughter. It was starting to get a little awkward because we had just been standing there for this whole time, and as the only white people around, we stuck out a lot, soon people came over and were introducing themselves and talking to us. I’m not sure if it was out of curiosity, or they thought we were lost, but I guess I shall never know. Thankfully, the daughter, Beauty finally did show up and she walked us to her mom’s house. She was telling us that everyone at school (she was in 12^th grade) the next day would be talking about her and what was she doing with these random Americans. At the house, we met with Florence, and she told us about how she cares for about 17 children from around the neighborhood. Most of them have lost, or have parents that are affected by HIV/AIDS and have no one to feed them and care for them. Really interesting lady, I will be interested to hear how successful this project turns out to be.

Wrapping up is spooky

Monday:

·         Last day of service! I am really sad to be leaving. The main thing that I worry about is if I leave and the program I’ve been working on doesn’t get picked up by anyone else. But only time shall tell.

Tuesday:

·         We had our big final presentation for our advocacy projects! This was sort of our final project for our Community Development class.

·         A lot of people were invited; even the provost of Marquette was there, along with some of my housemates’ teachers and students.

·         There were four groups of us, each working on one project for community development. I was in the Lotus Park group that dealt with the tutoring program that I’ve been going to on Thursdays. Mostly, we spoke about participatory development and how our project demonstrated that because it was thought up by members of LYDC (Lotus Youth Development Council), and ran through the participation of both LYDC and the community in a sustainable way.

Wednesday:

·         Halloweeeeen!

·         Mary Claire and I started the day by going to the party store with Andrew and Adolph. I ended up spending around $12 dollars for everything to decorate and for my costume!

·         When we got back home, the decorating began!

·         And the cooking. Our menu included bloody eyeball soup, mummy dogs, garlic gh(t)oast, witches brew, and copious amounts of candy!!

·         I made the tomato soup from scratch! Yup, I boiled down the tomatoes and everything. It turned out a little odd, but tasty. And then I added mozzarella balls with food coloring for the eyeballs.

·         I made a batch of fake blood, so you had better believe it was all over!

·         We invited Mama Zana (Mary Claire’s teacher at her work site) over, and she got quite a kick out of it all because she had never done Halloween before.

·         All in all, a very successful Halloween dinner!

I ended up being Katniss from the Hunger Games. Which was great because I wore my every day outfit, painted on a mockingjay, and bought a twenty rand toy bow that was the most fun thing ever!!! Ah, and the fake blood came in handy.

Saturday:

·         I had fun dinner out with all my favorite house mates. I went with Mary Claire, Burkard, Stuart, Jason, Meribeth, Sarah, and Shatevia.

·         In the course of the evening, it was decided that Sarah was my date and she made me the most beautiful bouquet of leaves and twigs.

Sunday:

·         American family dinner cookout

·         Maggie and Sam impressed us all with their homemade burgers on a proper barbeque. 

Kidlets

Monday:

·         Work Site: I just need to finish some last touches on the social work program. Also, I am rather sad because Angela, the lady I have been collaborating with, is also leaving Dance For All.

Tuesday:

·         Imbasa! Today I went with Stuart to Imbasa Primary where both he and Mary Claire teach. It was such a hectic day! Stuart works with the fourth graders and it was just a huge free for all the whole day long. Although he told me that they were particularly well behaved that day.

·         I had a blast playing games with them (hand clapping games, fire on the mountain, and tomati solisol), and we brought in some colored chalk!

·         After their break, Stuart had to go type something for his teacher (who had disappeared all day anyways) so I got thirty fourth graders of my own for the afternoon. We wrote stories and then I let them loose upon the chalkboard with the colored chalk. It turned into a mural of “I love Shannon!” everywhere, which was too cute.

·         Some variations of the spelling of my name: Shanon, Sharon, Sara, Chanin, Sanra, Shama, Sharna, and Mary. I think they called me Mary because of Mary Claire…

Wednesday:

·         For Bridget’s birthday we went to a gay bar, which was a blast. They had a drag show, and she was pretty damn hilarious. Bridget also got to take a body shot off a very muscular waiter, so she seemed pretty happy as well.

Thursday:

·         Mary’s mom is here, and so she came to Lotus when we went to go tutor. Luwando took us around and we even got to see his house and his mom’s house! It’s really interesting because they just look like compilations of corrugated metal and wood, but you open the door and he had a huge TV! Mary’s mom seemed rather nervous about where she was sending her daughter, but she definitely had a blast playing with the kids.

Friday:

·         We had all of our friends from Lotus come for dinner! LYDC  (Lotus Youth Development Council, which we have been working with) organized it, so we hadn’t met all the people that came.

·         We cooked them a “traditional American meal” that included Mac and Cheese, cornbread, chili, and pasta salad. They really liked it all, but I think we were a lot more into the mac and cheese than any of them (you can’t get it anywhere here. We’ve tried).

·         We also played a ton of games with them, and it was pretty great seeing them try to figure out charades! I was a jackal.

·         After all the Lotus people left, we were on such a high that we played a house-wide round of sardines!

Saturday:

·         So I walked for 9 hrs today. No big deal.

·         We did Skeleton’s Gorge Part II with the whole group. Only this time, we walked down the front of Table Mountain and several of us walked all the way around Devil’s Peak back to Obz! My feet were quite sore indeed, there was much barefooting.

·         Also, on our way down, we passed a ton of Indian people. A lot of them were in business suits and nice shoes. It was so bizarre to see! But someone mentioned that there was a Muslim holiday that involved people “taking a journey” so we guessed it had something to do with that. I was also quite happy that some of them pointed out my nosering and asked if I had ever been to India (I was so thrilled to tell them yes!)

·         On the front face of Table, there was a guy playing marimba. It was so perfect and beautiful. Just imagine that as your office every day!

Sunday:

·         Because we are going to UWC, we had the U dubs braai. I talked to many students, and I am really peeved at our program for doing this in the last several weeks, and not at the beginning when we could have actually seen any these people again.

Catching up

Monday:

·         Service day

·         I voted! WHOO!!! Huzzah, civic duty!

Tuesday:

·         psych class, almost done! Needless to say, my focus is waning and it is feeling more and more like summer here!

·         At our weekly house meeting, we reflected on the Ignatius spirit. We all go to Jesuit universities and St. Ignatius is a very strong figure within that community. It was interesting to discuss how the ideologies of our universities, particularly in a theological manner, coincided with what we were doing here in terms of service.

·         St. Ignatius lived the life of a party boy until he was wounded in battle and underwent a severe life epiphany brought upon by prolonged solitude due to his injury. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignatius_of_Loyola. He focused on the idea that God is present in everyday life, and combines that with the value of service to others.

Wednesday:

·         Ethics class, almost done! I can almost taste freedom!

·         I had a very productive day, I just need to begin my finals and figure out everything for back home. USF is ever  diligent at answering my emails; there is no bureaucracy anywhere.

·         I have also noticed an extreme increase of white people on campus. Previously, it was a little odd to not recognize them all, but today I saw at least ten that I haven’t seen before. I’m wondering if they are coming here for summer classes or something.

·         We went out to Poncho’s to celebrate Bridget’s boyfriend Peter being here and Caroline’s parents showing up. It was also Caroline’s mom’s birthday, so we made her put on a sombrero and do a tequila shot! The food was so good, and I am in love with their jam jars. Caroline’s parents treated us, which was really nice of them.

·         Earlier in the day, Sofi, Michelle, and Maggie were walking to McDonalds when three guys mugged them. They ran up from behind and grabbed Michelle’s purse, and they tried to grab Maggie’s purse too, but it was around her body, so one of the guys hit her in the face. Some neighbors ran out when they heard screaming and the guys ran off. They were pretty shaken up by it, and Melikaya brought them to the police. Later, they arrested one of the guys. It was just weird because it was broad daylight and they were in a group. I guess you can’t be too careful though.

Thursday:

·         I finished writing up the over view of my social program for Dance For All, now I just have to wait for the staff to review it and comment so I can refine it some more.

·         I am quite sad because a ton of people are leaving for the weekend. Some are going to Coffee Bay (in the Eastern Cape, I went there on my midsemester trip and rode horses and surfed), and some are going to Cape Agulhas, the very southernmost point of all Africa.

·         We went out to Cubanos for dinner and we met up with some friends from UCT. However, I am not so inclined to return, the food was great but the service was terrible. Seriously, we waited for a half hour just for menus. But I had a grand time meeting some new UCT exchange students.

·         Afterwards, we hit up Tiger Tiger, a dance club in Claremont. It was all white people, which was so weird. But they played some great songs (Stacey’s Mom, Scotty Doesn’t Know, Call Me Maybe, Gangnam Style, and SANDSTRORM, which naturally made me think of high-school aged Kane). I was happy as a pig in a puddle.

Friday:

·         We had gone out the night before because we were all certain that we had a lecturer coming to meet us at 2pm. However, Sofi gets a call from Melikaya at 8:30, asking if we were on our way. Surprise morning lecture! I really liked the lady a lot; she spoke about her experience as a director for multiple NGO’s.

·         Mary Claire (my roommate)’s mom is here! And she came with us to our second lecture of the day.

·         The second lecturer looked familiar, and then Jess Burkard realized that we had had her as a substitute in our Ethics class. She talked to us about gender and sexual violence within South Africa.

·         We went to the Hout Bay market, which is about a half an hour south of us by cab. The market had some really great booths, actually there was a lot of really cool art for sale. And everyone’s food was great, especially the tomato basil soup. It was kind of funny though, because most cabs don’t dispatch that far away, we ended up getting lucky that a cab driver offered us a ride because he had been waiting. We just pull out and he gets a call from the people he was waiting for. We had stolen the cab from Mary Claire and her mom! Poor Mary, the driver was trying to tell the dispatcher to send another cab for her, but the dispatcher was too dense to figure out why he couldn’t just do it (there were a lot of us squeezed into one cab already on our way back to Obz). Eventually she got a cab back to her mom’s hotel, but she must have been pretty stressed about getting stuck in Hout Bay for the night. All of us in the cab were laughing.

Saturday:

·         I went with Shatevia, Sofi, and Jess Buck to a big kid party. One of Shatevia’s work friends was having a surprise 28^th birthday party (her boyfriend was throwing it for her) at a sushi bar in Seapoint that was right on the water.

·         I had a good time talking to people, they were from all over the world (there were a couple Americans!) and were all in the same MBA program at UCT.

·         Afterwards, I went with Shatevia and her Brazilian friend, Carolina, to Fish & Chips Co. in Rondebosch. My stomach officially cannot deal with greasy food anymore, but it was so worth it. Carolina is great, she was too funny because she didn’t realize how far away Fish & Chips Co. was from home, so she was yelling at Shatevia the whole time we were walking home.

·         We watched Paranormal Activity 3, so I slept in Shatevia’s bed with her, because like hell can she make me watch that and then make me sleep alone.

Sunday:

·         The weather hates us all. It was rainy and cold and I was grumpsicles about it.

·         Everyone that went to Cape Agulhas came home!!! Sophie’s best friend came to visit as well, so I finally got to meet her (they went to Cape Agulhas too)

·         Family dinner was hosted by Meghan and Kholeka. They made fried rice, chicken and seafood, an amazing salad, and root beer floats for dessert!

Jess Burkard has also replaced Mary as my roommate, because Mary is staying at the hotel with her mom and Jess claims that her bed is so much more comfortable (plus we get internet in our room haha)

Oct 8-14: slipping by

Monday:

·         Work site day. Still plugging away at finding resources for the kids.

·         I checked the news today. Notable news: most about the proposed Pretoria name change (the capital). Which I find interesting. You would think all of the violence a little bit lower down the page would take the headlines.

·         SUSHI NIGHT! I embarked on a many hour adventure to track down ingredients with Shatevia for her family dinner. We ended up rolling sushi, making veggie and crab tempura, green tea ice cream, and pad thai. It was so great, we were all running around the kitchen, and then a song by Die Antwoord (who I love) came on the radio! It was the biggest mess we have ever made of that kitchen, and we ended up eating at 9:30, but it was such a great time. So much food was made. So much.

Tuesday:

·         We had dinner at Chima’s (Dr. Korieh). He is our academic advisor from Marquette. He’s from Nigeria originally, so he made us some traditional Nigerian food! It was a little hot, but bearable, I guess Nigerians are known for their spice.

Wednesday:

·         After class I was really feeling an adventure, so I went graffiti hunting with Jason around Woodstock.

·         There is some amazing art just sort of tucked away.

·         At one point, we got a little bit sucked off the main road, following the graffiti. I didn’t think too much of it, until we happened upon a little grove of shacks and a guy telling us we had to give him something. Jason said he would, but after he was done taking his pictures. So the guy designated himself as our personal tour guide and kept saying things like “come this way!” and I was just thinking that I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go where he wanted to take me, and both Jason and I were taking corners pretty wide, just in case someone was on the other side. He ended up showing us some cool pieces, and we paid him R20 for his help. A couple guys were hanging out on the corner and they kept yelling over at us in Xhosa, but I think they were making fun of him. I wasn’t sure how I felt about that situation, but in the end, it was a neat experience.

·         I also ended up practicing a bit of my par cour. I needed to climb up a wall and stand on a ledge the width of a brick to get a better picture. I felt pretty bad ass, and the photos came out great.

·         We also got invited to an art show. We were passing through this center with a ton of galleries, although most of them looked like they were still in the process of opening, and this guy invited us. I’m bummed that we had a program meeting on Thursday when the show was.

·         I also found out (after googling Banksy to show people back home who he is http://www.banksy.co.uk/) that there was a street art exhibit in Cape Town! However, I just missed it because it ended September 8^th. I was so happy when I found the ad for it, and then all of my hopes and dreams were smashed in one second when I saw the dates had passed.

Thursday:

·         After going to my work site, I went to Lotus Park (the place where we had that traditional African dinner where I ate a sheep’s head) to help with a tutoring program that Caroline and Jess Buck are a part of.

·         There ended up being a lot more volunteers than kids, so we read a couple of kid’s books and hung out with some of the older Lotus people. We then got a walking tour of Lotus Park! Which was great. We stopped in by their bar, which boasted a pool table, and we saw inside one of the guy’s home, and then he showed us his friend’s shack that had a recording studio in it!! They showed us the music video they were working on and it was pretty good! (better than that Solange Knowles video that just came out that was filmed in Langa http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hy9W_mrY_Vk)

This is the Bar in Lotus Park. Everyone who is anyone hangs out here

·         Unfortunately, the bus breaking down did not stop trusty Pearnel from obtaining other cars to get us all to UWC for a silly seminar on test anxiety. Not one of us was happy about it, even Pearnel. Although we cheered up at the end when they gave us snack boxes with Quali-juice, NikNaks, and apples.

Friday:

·         We had to present on the autobiography of Archbishop Desmond Tutu, whom we met earlier this semester. He is such an interesting guy and was a major voice during Apartheid and on the Truth and Reconciliation Commission afterwards.

·         We gathered with some of the UCT students to compete in team Olympics! I was on Kenya, and we had the best facepaint, by far! Below are the ladies and the gents of team Kenya

Saturday:

·        Today, I took the train out to Grassy Park to go to a market and hike. Little did we know, that Meghan found a market 3 miles from the train station and made us walk all the way there.

·         It was rather nice though. It looked oddly like Yakima, Washington. Actually, this area had bigger streets and real yards and trees, so it looked the most like the US that I have seen yet. Plus we got to pet some horses.

·         After we went to the market and sampled all the tasty food, we were meandering around this summer-camp-like place and found a SLIP N’ SLIDE!

·         So we commandeered the slip n’ slide until a security guard started meandering over towards us.

·         Then we hiked up through the Tokai  Forest (trees! This place had real trees!) to get to Elephant’s eye- a huge cavern at the top of the mountain.

·         My Achilles tendon is strained from overuse and I got a bee sting. But we ran the whole way down the mountain and had a blast… until we realized we had to walk three miles back to the train station.

Sunday:

·         Sun-day!

·         I caught up on work and lounged in the sun, working on my tan! (yes, I am actually achieving a nice dusting of color)

·         Jess and Michelle made a spaghetti bar for family dinner, complete with garlic bread, homemade meatballs, seafood, and three sauces! The video entertainment was Shawshank Redemption. Classic.

Rockn'rollin Daisies!

Monday:

·         At my site, I am still working on my resourcing project. I made a sheet for the teachers to fill out with the information that therapists/social workers would need to know, etc. It looks like putting a solid system in place is going to be a lot more work than I anticipated and will probably be my goal for the end of the semester.

·         I was on such a high from Lion’s Head that I wanted to go back. However, I didn’t get my stuff together in time for sunset, so instead I climbed the bottom of Devil’s Peak, and there were fireflies! I have only seen them maybe twice before in my life, so that was a very pleasant treat.

Tuesday:

·         I decided to be a rebel child and skip class. Yet, in true Shannon form, it was still a very educational day. I went with Meghan and Stuart to the art museum!

·         I really liked a lot of the art that they had. It was certainly smaller than the one in Portland, but they had a good collection. I particularly liked the exhibit that showed the use of animals in art from colonial era to the present. You walked in and the first thing you see is a giant iron horse rearing with a colonial black woman in full dress riding it. 

Additionally, there were these weird alien-people statues entitles "The Butcher Boys" that were very eerie. It felt like they were going to stand up at any second and start talking. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Butcher_Boys

·         The museum also had a “dialogue” segment. This paired two or more pictures together in a way that they each commented on each other. For example, there was a colonial depiction of city hall next to a vibrant purple and blue night life depiction.

·         Lastly, there was even an exhibit from UWC (my school here)! There were a lot of prints that were found archived in some basement somewhere and they mostly came from Apartheid era when the college was first established. (In the beginning it was a colored only school, so there was a very specific perspective represented in all the prints).

·          After the museum, we lay in the grass of the downtown gardens and walked to Greenmarket Square. I liked what the market had, but seeing as it was a Tuesday, there were hardly any shoppers. This meant that the vendors were quite pushy and adamant to show us their wares. I spoke Spanish for the day so that I had an excuse to ignore them.

·         After that, I walked all the way home from downtown with Stuart. It only took us about an hour, and I felt productive for the exercise.

Wednesday:

·         So the jerk who has been insulting everyone finally presented today.

·         It was actually a rather disappointing ending to the saga. The professor took this opportunity to show that the guy’s presentation did not cover any subject within the scope of the class and that he should have seen that on the syllabus (his was about autonomy and oppression, as in if people believe in the reasons that they are oppressed, does that make it okay? It was actually really interesting). And she went on to embarrass him by bringing up some college degree that he had put on his facebook, but then he said he did not indeed have any degree yet. It was satisfying to see him squirm, but I felt like it was a conversation for her office, outside of the public eye and I felt an overwhelming amount of immaturity from both parties. I guess people just handle confrontation differently here.

Thursday:

·         Service again. I am working on a referral sheet for the teachers to explain specific problems that their kids are having, the background, and other information needed to get assistance to these kids. For example, a lot of the problems include not going to school, not having enough to eat, not having safe living conditions or supervision, to more serious problems such as depression and abuse. I think that I am going to need to make a rough version to use for now until I get a more permanent concept in place.

·         At this point, I think I need to take a step back and design the system as a whole, then work on filling in the little parts with more concrete things like my referral sheet. This is going to take a lot of research.

 Friday:

·         During my community development class, we had a talk from a lady who was originally from the states, but then she moved to South Africa to work in the community development sector. Needless to say, since a lot of the people that I live with want to do just that, everyone was pretty intrigued.

·         After, we left for Rocking the Daisies- the South African version of Sasquatch!

·         It was located north of Cape Town, at a wine estate in Darling.

·         It was easily the whitest place I have been in South Africa. I think that the entire cape population of Afrikaners was there. But as it was a festival, everyone brought their A game outfits and it was fun to see it all.

Saturday:

·         The festival grounds had a pond with a “beach” on it, complete with beach-side bar. There were also quite a lot of great booths to look through (even a “swap store” where people brought old things and they would give them to you if you tweeted a picture and where you got it!). I spent most of the day walking around, seeing the sights, listening to the bands (many of whom I could not tell you their names), and meeting new people!

·         There were also a lot of Europeans and Americans there. I met a girl named Jessica who moved to Cape Town to get her masters from UCT (getting ideas, mom and dad), and some people that lived around obz (where I live)! There was even a guy wearing a USF shirt, but I was so stunned that I didn't think to say anything before he walked away.

·         There was one band that reminded me of Steam Powered Giraffe, and they had a lot of brass (trumpets, tuba, etc.), and that was a really fun show. I also had a good time listening to Desmond and the Tutus (clever band name). To be honest though, I was not really feeling the headliner, Bloc Party. They just sounded flat and it started to rain during their show.

·         I am told that last year had scorching weather; we were not so lucky this year. The first night was so freezing cold, I ended up in a pile with Jess Burkard and Mary Claire so we could keep warm. Additionally, we got the tent that did not have a functional zipper on the door, so it was open all night and the wind came and went as it pleased. Also, on Saturday night we enjoyed a bit of rain with our open tent door.

Sunday:

·         We woke up wet, chilly, exhausted and utterly loving life.

·         The venue was such a zoo to get out of, so we ended up walking up the road a ways to meet Xolile so that he wouldn't have to brave the parking lot.